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	<title>László Monda's Blog &#187; Psychology</title>
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		<title>Great videos!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 03:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
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I&#039;ve watched some great videos on Google Video in the last few days:


"All Marketers are Liars" - Seth Godin speaks at Google
Open Source Developers @ Google Speaker Series: Lessons From Advogato - Some very interesting insights on Trust Networks and specifically on Advogato, of course.
The Paradox of Choice - Why More Is Less - An [...]]]></description>
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I&#039;ve watched some great videos on Google Video in the last few days:
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<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6909078385965257294" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6909078385965257294">"All Marketers are Liars" - Seth Godin speaks at Google</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5092930485716426869" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5092930485716426869">Open Source Developers @ Google Speaker Series: Lessons From Advogato</a> - Some very interesting insights on Trust Networks and specifically on Advogato, of course.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6127548813950043200" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6127548813950043200">The Paradox of Choice - Why More Is Less</a> - An extremely counter-intuitive lecture on why more choices may make us more frustrated and depressed than ever and why 28% of Americans are willing to donate their organs when they die, versus to 90% of the Europeans.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7582902000166025817" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7582902000166025817">Sergey Brin Speaks with UC Berkeley Class</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2524524540025172110" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2524524540025172110">Performance Tuning Best Practices for MySQL</a> - I&#039;m not sure that a pro <acronym title="Database Administrator">DBA</acronym> can learn much from this lecture, but I&#039;ve certainly learned a lot and will probably revisit it sometimes.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1424079446171087119" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1424079446171087119">Change your Mind Change your Brain: The Inner Conditions for Authentic Happiness</a> - It&#039;s a unique lesson from a Buddhist teacher on happines and it paints a stark contrast between our society&#039;s bullshit that&#039;s ought to make us happy versus real inner peace and joy.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8566923311315412414" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8566923311315412414">Aspect Oriented Programming: Radical Research in Modularity</a> - AOP is an interesting concept and I think it may have its benefits in case of larger systems, but I&#039;m not convinced that it&#039;s viable due to the increased complexity that it adds to the system.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-474821803269194441" title="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-474821803269194441">Best Practices in Javascript Library Design</a> - A lecture from John Resig himself.</span></li>
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		<title>Daniel Goleman: Why arenâ€™t we all Good Samaritans?</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2008/03/18/daniel-goleman-why-aren%e2%80%99t-we-all-good-samaritans/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Global Problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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Daniel Goleman: Why arenâ€™t we all Good Samaritans?

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<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/200" title="http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/200">Daniel Goleman: Why arenâ€™t we all Good Samaritans?</a></span></li>
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		<title>How to Avoid the 10 Worst Energy Zappers</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2008/01/10/how-to-avoid-the-10-worst-energy-zappers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 19:16:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
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 * How to Avoid the 10 Worst Energy Zappers - The greatest article I&#039;ve ever read on the topic.
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 * <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2008/01/how-to-avoid-10-worst-energy-zappers.html" title="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2008/01/how-to-avoid-10-worst-energy-zappers.html">How to Avoid the 10 Worst Energy Zappers</a> - The greatest article I&#039;ve ever read on the topic.</p>
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		<title>Links for 2008-01-01</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2008/01/02/links-for-2008-01-01/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 11:56:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Hacking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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Three Unforgivable Usability Sins


It&#039;s a stellar article on usability defects that make user&#039;s and related parties&#039; life hell.  I was pretty conscious about all these mistakes except blaming error mesages.


I used a web based payment service of my ISP several months ago that asked me for the date on my last bill that I [...]]]></description>
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<strong><a href="http://advice.cio.com/uisins" title="http://advice.cio.com/uisins">Three Unforgivable Usability Sins</a></strong>
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<p>
It&#039;s a stellar article on usability defects that make user&#039;s and related parties&#039; life hell.  I was pretty conscious about all these mistakes except blaming error mesages.
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<p>
I used a web based payment service of my <acronym title="Internet Service Provider">ISP</acronym> several months ago that asked me for the date on my last bill that I got from them.  After inputting the date in yyyy.mm.dd. format as it was present on the bill and the validation failed, I tried it without the ending dot and I succeeded.  I found 2 more similar usability errors related to their messy form and reported to them.  I got no response ever since and eventually stopped using their payment service.  They should fire their customer service.
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Unfortunately, most developers don&#039;t have a clue on usability engineering and that&#039;s the reason why there are so many crappy applications, but in the above case one doesn&#039;t have to be a rocket scientist just to make such a straightforward input validation a little more flexible.  I guess most geeks prefer relating to machines more than relating to people and that&#039;s why they suck at usability.
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<strong><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Not_Invented_Here" title="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Not_Invented_Here">Not Invented Here</a></strong>
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It&#039;s an interesting concept that can deeply affect the evolution of our technologies.  Despite .NET coming from Microsoft, I think it&#039;s a great platform so I deliberately use Mono for various projects.  I think Miguel knew that there will be a group of people that will pretty much dislike the whole idea because of its origins from Microsoft, but he took his chance and here Mono is.  I was much more prone to Not Invented Here in the past, but I think there&#039;s really more to lose than to win if you apply it.
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<strong><a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/12/21/AR2007122102266.html?hpid=sec-health" title="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/12/21/AR2007122102266.html?hpid=sec-health">Empathy: Could It Be What You're Missing?</a></strong>
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Do you suffer from epathy deficit disorder?  Read this article to find out!</p>
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		<title>The Courage to Live Consciously</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2007/11/27/the-courage-to-live-consciously/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 18:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
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The Courage to Live Consciously is probably the most inspiring and insightful self improvement article I&#039;ve ever read.
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<a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/courage-to-live-consciously.htm" title="http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/courage-to-live-consciously.htm">The Courage to Live Consciously</a> is probably the most inspiring and insightful self improvement article I&#039;ve ever read.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Taking Care</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2007/06/19/the-power-of-taking-care/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2007 09:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
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I&#039;ve always believed that truly taking care of things absolutely makes a difference in any field.  I&#039;ve interacted many times with customer services to help them and they didn&#039;t even bothered to thank my help.  As a result I developed negative images associated with them and their value lowered greatly in my mind.


Here&#039;s [...]]]></description>
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I&#039;ve always believed that truly taking care of things absolutely makes a difference in any field.  I&#039;ve interacted many times with customer services to help them and they didn&#039;t even bothered to thank my help.  As a result I developed negative images associated with them and their value lowered greatly in my mind.
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<p>
Here&#039;s a short, but very <a href="http://thomas.apestaart.org/log/?p=494" title="http://thomas.apestaart.org/log/?p=494">relevant post</a> about this topic.</p>
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		<title>Memo</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2007/03/07/memo-28/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2007 11:52:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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7 Helpful Tips To Immediately Increase Your Confidence

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<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.topachievement.com/kentsayre.html" title="http://www.topachievement.com/kentsayre.html">7 Helpful Tips To Immediately Increase Your Confidence</a></span></li>
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		<title>Memo</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2007/02/19/memo-24/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2007 00:41:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Hacking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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Power Napping - Improved Mental And Physical Performence
The mind, as it evolves - Depression as a survival tool?  Some new treatments assume so.
Nautilus &#038; Metadata, love at first sight
Why do men ignore nagging wives? It's all science
thePeoplesToolbox - Tools for programmers and web designers
Insecurity may drain your immune system
Brain Diseases I Wish I Had [...]]]></description>
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<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://ririanproject.com/2006/08/23/power-napping-improved-mental-and-physical-performence/" title="http://ririanproject.com/2006/08/23/power-napping-improved-mental-and-physical-performence/">Power Napping - Improved Mental And Physical Performence</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-he-evpsych12feb12,0,1620329,full.story?coll=la-home-health" title="http://www.latimes.com/features/health/la-he-evpsych12feb12,0,1620329,full.story?coll=la-home-health">The mind, as it evolves - Depression as a survival tool?  Some new treatments assume so.</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://njpatel.blogspot.com/2007/02/nautilus-metadata-love-at-first-sight.html" title="http://njpatel.blogspot.com/2007/02/nautilus-metadata-love-at-first-sight.html">Nautilus &#038; Metadata, love at first sight</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://pressesc.com/01171393773_nagging_wife_ignore" title="http://pressesc.com/01171393773_nagging_wife_ignore">Why do men ignore nagging wives? It's all science</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.thepeoplestoolbox.com/programmers/" title="http://www.thepeoplestoolbox.com/programmers/">thePeoplesToolbox - Tools for programmers and web designers</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://abc.net.au/science/news/stories/2007/1847331.htm" title="http://abc.net.au/science/news/stories/2007/1847331.htm">Insecurity may drain your immune system</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.autoadviceoffl.com/Braindisease.htm" title="http://www.autoadviceoffl.com/Braindisease.htm">Brain Diseases I Wish I Had</a> - I personally would rather not have these diseases because their accompanying side effects, but it&#039;s an extremely interesting read.</span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.technologyreview.com/Infotech/18047" title="http://www.technologyreview.com/Infotech/18047">Anything You Can Do, I Can Do Meta - Space tourist and billionaire programmer Charles Simonyi designed Microsoft Office. Now he wants to reprogram software.</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://tirania.org/blog/archive/2007/Feb-15.html" title="http://tirania.org/blog/archive/2007/Feb-15.html">Miguel: Compiler Updates - C# 3.0</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.ipnlighting.com/blog/2007/02/22-ways-to-reduce-eye-strain-at-your.asp" title="http://www.ipnlighting.com/blog/2007/02/22-ways-to-reduce-eye-strain-at-your.asp">22 Ways to Reduce Eye Strain at Your Computer</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://specialreports.linux.com/article.pl?sid=07/02/15/0724206&amp;tid=138&amp;tid=47" title="http://specialreports.linux.com/article.pl?sid=07/02/15/0724206&amp;tid=138&amp;tid=47">Zero Install: An executable critique of native package systems</a></span></li>
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		<title>Personality Types</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2005/12/09/personality-types/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2005 23:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>

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I&#039;m very interested in Myers-Briggs typology.  These are the best related sites I found:


http://www.keirsey.com
http://www.personalitypage.com
http://www.personalitytype.com
http://www.typelogic.com


If you wanna know what&#039;s your type, I recommend you the free Jung Typology Test which everyone seem to use.  If you don&#039;t have half an hour or so, a shorter version of it is just for you.
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I&#039;m very interested in Myers-Briggs typology.  These are the best related sites I found:
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<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.keirsey.com" title="http://www.keirsey.com">http://www.keirsey.com</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.personalitypage.com" title="http://www.personalitypage.com">http://www.personalitypage.com</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.personalitytype.com" title="http://www.personalitytype.com">http://www.personalitytype.com</a></span></li>
<li class="level1"><span class="li"><a href="http://www.typelogic.com" title="http://www.typelogic.com">http://www.typelogic.com</a></span></li>
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If you wanna know what&#039;s your type, I recommend you the free <a href="http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm" title="http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm">Jung Typology Test</a> which everyone seem to use.  If you don&#039;t have half an hour or so, a <a href="http://www.personalitytype.com/quiz.asp" title="http://www.personalitytype.com/quiz.asp">shorter version of it</a> is just for you.</p>
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		<title>Good Self Help Book</title>
		<link>http://monda.hu/blog/2005/06/17/good-self-help-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2005 14:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my best friends has just pointed out to a very good online self help book.  It has got some interesting topics and statistics in it.
StrongDC++ Rulez
Are you using DC++?  It's time to upgrade to StrongDC++.  It's full of usable features.  The GUI is much more intuitive, supports segmented downloading, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my best friends has just pointed out to a very good online <a href="http://mentalhelp.net/psyhelp/">self help</a> book.  It has got some interesting topics and statistics in it.</p>
<p><b>StrongDC++ Rulez</b></p>
<p>Are you using DC++?  It's time to upgrade to <a href="http://strongdc.berlios.de/index.php?lang=eng">StrongDC++</a>.  It's full of usable features.  The GUI is much more intuitive, supports segmented downloading, and has many more cool features.</p>
<p>It's a shame that there isn't exists a quality DC client for Linux.  Some would say Valknut is good enough.  In my expericence, it's far from the truth.</p>
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